We have separate accounts but my wife has all my passwords. Actually she has a facebook page I've never bothered to access, and frankly am not interested in, its just all her girlfriend stuff, I trust her completely.

Siddh - you're right one can set up almost any identity you want and its up to you to be truthful to your wife, GF/BF, etc.

ntropy - most likely when you get married you won't be bothered sharing all this stuff with your wife, at least I hope so... secrets in a marriage are bad, bad, bad news.

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A wise young crackpot knows no fear - Ian Dury.