I hadn't even thought about the comment being patronising, I just thought that I would put my hand up as one of the first on the list 10 / 21 / 42 whatever!

Snow is now resting in my home and one look at her picture (as I am overseas right now)and I know it was money well spent, we always find a way to cover our bills, we always end up with support that overwhelmes us....it will happen again!

A little stressed out is right but with that comes a determination to continue our efforts!