I wish my mom or mother in law were here, or maybe someone other from my family. Sadly I dont. I dont have anyone here.
I do everything for my son, breakfast, lunch, and even wash him before I leave home. She feed him the breakfast and lunch, and changed him probably 2 times while I am away. He sleeps out of 6 hours at home 2-3 hours, so literally she stays with him awake around 3-4 hours which are great.
He always sounds happy when I call to check on him. My husband also bombards her with calls asking her about our son. Our son makes noises and sings when I talk toher on the phone and even when I get home he is singing. I know them he is ok and happy.
I am the one who baths him and take care of HIM when I reach home. The maid doesnt touch or seem him again until the next morning!!!