This is a huge dilemma everyone wonders about.
I was talking to my husband that now that my son is more aware of things around him, it makes me want to stay home with him and let the savings find its way.
He was like
- u r working for his studies, future, needs
- if u stay home u will then say i wish i worked and he would have blah blah
- if u work u say u wish u could have stayed with our son at home.

its a dilemma everyone has an issue with, u know? and its hard to chose when u prefer to. I prefer staying with my son, no debate here, but the real world needs us to work and support our families, sadly.