How is it not unfair (to clarify, I said unequal)?

I didnt say that paying for multiple women is more difficult then paying for one woman, I said that allowing one sex to have multiple spouses while forcing the other sex to only have one spouse or share one spouse with others is 'inequality'. Men are treated equally when compared to other men, and women when compared to other women, but when you compare treatment of men and women, the treatment is not the same (not the same treatment = not equal...). Equal would be if any woman was EQUALLY entitled to marry as many men as she could financially support, or if she chose, to only marry and support one man.

I'm no god, but as I see it if you wanted to make things equal for everyone, you just give everyone the same, privelages and responsibilities. You dont try to compare apples to oranges and make some things harder for some and easier for others. Its not a difficult concept, if I can figure it out and 'He' can't then maybe 'He' then maybe 'He' isnt all that wise.