and yes!! we also need to teach them how to LET GO OF THINGS AND GET RID OF THE OLD MAGAZINES/ BOOKS/ OTHER JUNKS THAT THEY SAVE TO BE USED LATER. yesterday I asked my husband that we needed a book shelf and after a few minutes I found the ugly old broken shelf dumped in my storage sitting in my living room. we had an argument and i made it clear that my livingroom was not a junky junker's garage and threw the shelf out...i am still dusting my hands.