and if she happens to be a blond...you are in luck ;) If language really is your lacuna then strive to THE BEST at your skill and i will share with you what somebody shared with me long ago and i will put it just the way he said it....."Kabil bano kaamyabi kudh tumhare peeche bhagegi."...i know the feeling that joblessness can bring but winners are the ones who hang in there one minute longer. All the best.