Combine those three words - Marriage, Destiny, Choice and you can have a never ending discussion with no conclusive message.

If you believe Life is hard..it will only get harder. Judgement of character in other people plays a huge role in how hard or easy life can get. These judgements can change but what is always consistent is "you".

If you are clear on what you will accept, how much you will compromise and what you will endure, then your life will be lived on your terms irrespective of how well you have judged the character of others.

Though this sounds a lot more complicated than it is, think through it, it is not!