Alumnar I wasn't actually referring to your posts specifically - but I now see that your one brain cell is actually getting overloaded - so just take it easy and relax, we wouldn’t want that last remaining cell to fizzle out too now would we - then where would you be!!!

I do think responses like Bu*l Sh*t and co. are very intellectually thought through responses. There are other ways of saying you disagree and by explaining why you disagree (which you actually attempted to do to some extent)..

And my mind is not actually made up as you can see from my last post, Im just putting out that I feel there are something’s in that article that do ring true; for example: 

In the second place, the gently submissive wife is helping to create a peaceable, calm and non-threatening environment in which her husband feels at ease to question and criticize his own attitudes and to listen to her challenges.  Of course if the man were a perfect man then he would be humble enough to accept a challenge from his wife under any circumstances but, then again, if he were a perfect man this entire discussion would be unnecessary 

There are a lot of things this Christian fundamentalist says in his article that I disagree with and they go too far but I don’t think going to the other extreme and just writing off the 'whole' thing because of that  is correct either....