Hi Rik Tiki

I'm sorry you had such a bad day, we all have them and with the huge life changes on the horizon - no wonder you got overwhelmed for a minute. Don't let those small minded comments on here put you off- this site has a bit of a reputation for ruff posts!!! It is not representative of what life and people here are like. Accomodation is expensive, its true, but often heavily subsidised through work, which helps, and it sounds like the kids are going to go to a great school. There are so many clubs and organisations for them here and the people here are really truely the kindest I have experienced anywhere. You might not believe it today, but I am so sure you are all going to be very happy here. Keep looking - you will find your happy home, promise.