I hope that you will be treated soon or you will get what from God what you wish . I know what are you talking about - have been to the outpatient clinics of women hospital go to this station /go to that section..etc ..
and men are not allowed to enter the outpatient clinics .. then it happened to me that I had to take my new born into the new born baby clinics which strangely was found inside the outpatient clinics of women hospital at that time . But I was still weak by the C -section and I was not able to carry my baby . So I had no other solution I had to ask my husband to do so . When he entered with a baby in his hand then the security cornered him and was talking to him rudely .When they saw that there was no other way - they accepted it -but looking at us angrily . I do not think that I was the only woman who was weak some days after delivery and had no female help with .It is somehow not well thought of . On the other hand inside the hospital there were too many male relatives all the day . Most of then were politely hiding behind the curtains surrounding the beds but it happened that some of them was just sitting in the middle of the room and it was very embarrassing when I needed to go somewhere . So I think they just do not think deeply about it .