Hmmmm very hot discussion!!..............
............for a notorious Indian Custom - DOWRY.
simple difference - In Arab Culture and tradition it is men who pays to the girl and brings his own home - can be called SELF MADE man ! !
In India Girls take all the household and all sorts of Facility to, the Man, to be husband - That's BRIDE's MADE Man. I have found some Men and his parents demanding even a car(Flat, CAsh gold are common demands).