Thanks QL people..my bf is a decent guy..he said he didnt intend to hurt me but just found someone he was comfortable with..he was honest enough to tell me that he felt love for that person (i didnt know what to feel after hearing that..i was literally shaking and can't breathe, didnt know it was possible to feel such pain as this is the first time it happened to us)..we talked and discussed and he said that it's me he wants to marry..i love him to bits but i am really confused..i don't know if he it's worth a second chance..do men change and learn their lesson? Thanks for all your comments/advice..